Cole DeLargie-Campbell shared their perspective on facing a terminal illness, describing it as a mix of sorrow and an unexpected opportunity. Diagnosed with a brain tumor four years ago at the age of 34, DeLargie-Campbell recently learned that the disease is terminal, giving them a limited time frame of a few months to two years. The news immediately made them think of their spouse, Kaila DeLargie-Campbell, whom they married in 2021 after 13 years together.
Following a series of surgeries and medical complications, DeLargie-Campbell was informed in late November that the tumor, affectionately named “Brian,” is now a permanent presence in their brain. Embracing a positive outlook, they are focusing on making the most of their remaining time by journaling, creating bucket lists, and cherishing significant moments with loved ones. Friends of DeLargie-Campbell have initiated an online fundraising campaign on GoFundMe to support them and their spouse during this challenging period.
Reflecting on the impact of their diagnosis, DeLargie-Campbell finds solace in humor and strength but acknowledges the profound sadness that accompanies the news. They express regret over missing out on future moments with their wife and the unfulfilled dreams they had envisioned together. The realization of their mortality has shifted their priorities, emphasizing the importance of simple pleasures like exploring new music and shows, rather than seeking discomfort in unfamiliar experiences.
With a bucket list that includes diverse activities like go-karting, attending a monster-truck show, exploring Canada via rail, and eagerly awaiting the release of Grand Theft Auto VI, DeLargie-Campbell remains determined to make the most of their time. Despite the challenges posed by their illness, they aspire to enjoy life to the fullest, including spending quality time with family and friends, contemplating a trip to Cuba, and reaffirming their love through a vow renewal ceremony with Kaila.
DeLargie-Campbell’s rare Grade 3 meningioma diagnosis, confirmed by Dr. Jeffrey Greenspoon, a radiation oncologist, underscores the severity of their condition. Unlike the majority of slow-growing meningiomas, Grade 3 variants are aggressive and life-threatening, akin to malignant cancers. Despite the grim prognosis, DeLargie-Campbell remains resilient, preparing for an uncertain future with a mix of acceptance and determination.
As they await further medical evaluations, DeLargie-Campbell remains resolute in their resolve to confront their mortality with courage and grace. Their story serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare and the significance of embracing each day as a precious gift.